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There is still lots of interest in the combination of the Magician and the Lover’s card. I have an uneasy feeling it comes from a place of fear and manipulation, to be honest. I get the vibe that it comes from 1. a fear of rejection or a fear being ‘alone’ ie not in a dating relationship or 2. a desire to control someone else’s feelings, and bend a situation to one person’s will over another.

There is no love potion or love spell – especially not in Tarot. What goes around comes around. Like attracts like. What you give to the universe comes back to you threefold. Approaching dating and romance with anything other than love and compassion for the other person is bad advice.  Here are some pages and old posts that might be more helpful.


The Magician and The Lovers in a romance question.

How to Find Your Soulmate

Decision Meditation

Alice got it right, Twilight predicts the future