What are the bare bones of your security? What makes your inner structure strong?
Rarely do you see iron girders on the outside of a building. Strength comes from within…even if it wasn’t there to start. Buildings may bring building materials from another place, but they still integrate, incorporate, make that strength their own. It is the same for us. Looking to others for leadership, comfort, inspiration only goes so far. Ultimately we alone decide, act, adapt, cope, learn.
Deciding and acting may be easier when good, strong leaders are around…that is what makes the leaders that they are. Use their inspiration and guidance to glean the comfort and confidence you need, when you need it, but in the end it is all up to you. Choose them well, but then you must be the one to set the girders that you build your life’s calling around.